A satisfying film conversation does not require everyone to reach the same verdict. It needs enough structure for people to explain what they noticed and enough openness for an unexpected response. A few considered questions can do more than a long list of ratings.
Begin by giving each participant space to name one memorable moment. Ask for a description before an evaluation. This makes the conversation accessible to people who do not use specialist film vocabulary and gives the group a shared set of examples.
Invite different readings without turning disagreement into a contest. Someone may have found a scene comforting while another experienced it as uneasy. Asking which details shaped those reactions encourages attention to the film and respect for the people discussing it.
Close with a question for a future viewing rather than a forced consensus. If you keep notes, make clear whose view you are recording and obtain permission before attributing a comment publicly. A good conversation leaves people curious enough to return.